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Kinky Scavenger Hunt

February 14 @ 6:00 pm - February 16 @ 8:00 am

We have a lot of cool things to do and see at the Flea! In your attendee bag you have a page that lists some of them. Some are easy to find and some might be more difficult. Actions might be anything from counting rooms in the host hotel to having a staff member initial … Continue reading "Kinky Scavenger Hunt"

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The Speakeasy

February 15 @ 8:00 pm - February 16 @ 1:30 am

Come out to The Speakeasy where the weather may be cold, but the bootblacking, socializing, and sensuality are hot! Join your host Sarah Sloane as you sip on delicious beverages, enjoy decadent nibbles, get your boots and leathers in luscious condition in the hands of one of our amazing bootblacks, and celebrate your sexy weekend … Continue reading "The Speakeasy"

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Bootblacking

February 15 @ 8:00 pm - February 16 @ 12:00 am

The Bootblack Stand is back this year for all of your boot and leather needs. Come by, take a load off, watch the beautiful fetish wear go by, and let our team of skilled bootblacks care for your boots, jackets, pants, vests, chaps, and toys. 50% of all collected tips will be donated to the … Continue reading "Bootblacking"

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Boston Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Presents: An Evening of Drag

February 15 @ 8:30 pm - February 16 @ 12:00 am

Join The Boston Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for a FABULOUS night’s performance of gender-bending hilarity and sparkling fun. These drag queens, whose sistery (history) was founded in 1979 in San Francisco as a way to support those affected by the AIDS Crisis. Now, the Sisters stand for nonjudgmentalism, entertainment, and joy. The Sisters provide their … Continue reading "Boston Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Presents: An Evening of Drag"

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BYOT Lounge: BYOT (Bring your own toy) lounge

February 15 @ 9:00 pm - February 16 @ 1:00 am

The flea offers so many wonderful and unique venders. Unity NH LLC is hosting the BYOT lounge. The lounge is to provide people the space and furniture (along with friendly and knowledgeable Unity Staff) for you to try your new toys out.

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10:00 am

Meet the NELA Board

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Rotunda United States
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Like a Wizard: Hypnosis for Magical Effects in Scene

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Tiverton United States

Hypnosis may be as close to “magic” as we can get, and this class will demonstrate how that can be done! Demonstrations will be broken down to show the hypnotic techniques and suggestions utilized, as well as safety and negotiation. Touching on freezes, teleportation, use of hypnotic amnesia, the experience of control, hypnotic drug play … Continue reading "Like a Wizard: Hypnosis for Magical Effects in Scene"

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Defying Stereotypes: The Spectrum from Top to Bottom

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Bristol A United States

There's a truism out there, that submissives are automatically masochists, and dominants are automatically sadists. However, as with most things, there is a spectrum between those two absolutes. Allyson will talk about the trials and tribulations of being a submissive who has a wide sadistic streak, and how to go about working through that with … Continue reading "Defying Stereotypes: The Spectrum from Top to Bottom"

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E-Stim Overview

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Naragansett United States

EMS, TENS, Violet Wands, Electro Vibes, Electro Acupressure, the choices, the uses, how to decide. This overview class introduces through discussion and demonstration the difference in sensation of these popular E-Stim devices. Class covers use and care of equipment, basic safety, and some suggestions of ways to introduce these tools into your play.

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Truth in the Scene: What Kink Teaches Us

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Bristol B United States

We turn to Kink and BDSM for many reasons, and what we're into can shine a light on our needs and wants in all parts of our lives. This workshop offers exercises to explore how our kinky needs and desires relate to our whole lives and the ways we can adapt our kink communication practices … Continue reading "Truth in the Scene: What Kink Teaches Us"

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Aging and BDSM Sexuality: We were Always the Cool Kids

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Ocean United States

“Senior”: knowledgeable and much improved. This is a slideshow presentation that is meant to be descriptive of what real people are doing as they age. Every adult at every age faces a changing body, shifting abilities, and evolving desires. The point is that desire continues for as long as you want it. Sexual expression is … Continue reading "Aging and BDSM Sexuality: We were Always the Cool Kids"

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I can get my own glass of water: Accepting Service

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:30 am
Rhode Island United States

We will discuss authority based relationships and how the left side of the slash (Master/Mistress/Dominant) works to accept service from the right side of the slash. Being served, how to explore the joy of being served and service, and how to show appreciation for the services given. Also explore a few types of service and … Continue reading "I can get my own glass of water: Accepting Service"

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Self Care Suite

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 5:00 pm

Conventions can be stressful, hectic, and fast-paced. Come check out the Self Care Suite Friday 6:00-11:00pm, Saturday, 9:00am-7:00pm and 9:00-11:00pm, and Sunday 10:00am-5:00pm to enjoy some time away from the bustle of the general Flea space. This suite is equipped with several self-care stations to allow your whole mind, body, and spirit relax and recharge.

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Social Hour

February 16 @ 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Kingston United States

Come join us for open social time among kinksters in a space for like-minded individuals to meet one another, make new friends, and connect. If you're interested in hosting a specific affinity group meet and greet or a local organization's meet and greet, please get in touch with fff_programming@nelaonline.org slots are available on a first … Continue reading "Social Hour"

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11:00 am

Pony Paddock

February 16 @ 11:00 am - 4:00 pm

Once again, Ponyboys Rusty and Stormy will present a day-long play space for anyone wishing to try ponyplay. There will be demonstrations throughout the day along with lots of play! Come and play or just observe.

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The Bullwhip Lounge

February 16 @ 11:00 am - 4:00 pm
Patriots United States

The Bullwhip Lounge is for you if you love whips, are curious about whips, or maybe even a little afraid of whips. We'll have instructors on hand to help you learn to use a whip safely in a scene. If you are curious about what a whip feels like we can make that happen as … Continue reading "The Bullwhip Lounge"

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Rope Lounge

February 16 @ 11:00 am - 3:00 pm
Greenwich United States

Join the rope tops, bottoms, switches, and explorers in an open space to practice rope learned at the Flea and elsewhere. Tie, be tied, learn something new, or simply watch and enjoy. Advanced rope practices are not allowed in the Rope Lounge.

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Bootblacking

February 16 @ 11:00 am - 4:00 pm

The Bootblack Stand is back this year for all of your boot and leather needs. Come by, take a load off, watch the beautiful fetish wear go by, and let our team of skilled bootblacks care for your boots, jackets, pants, vests, chaps, and toys. 50% of all collected tips will be donated to the … Continue reading "Bootblacking"

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11:45 am

Hot Squirming – Erotic Humiliation Play: The Why, The How, The What to Avoid

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:45 pm
Rotunda United States

Why do people get off on being embarrassed or humiliated? What’s the difference between healthy, constructive scenes and destructive, harmful ones? What are potential psychological effects? What's different for one-time scenes vs. playing with a life partner? Have you questioned your desires or ability to make others squirm, or secretly wanted to be shown how … Continue reading "Hot Squirming – Erotic Humiliation Play: The Why, The How, The What to Avoid"

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Long Distance Loving

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:15 pm
Tiverton United States

The internet age has allowed for live to cross farther distances than ever before! Maintaining long distance relationships can also be aided by some fantastic new breakthroughs. This workshop talks about communicating needs & desires across miles, and the latest toy technology when it comes to long distance partnerships.

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Hypnotic Headgames

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:15 pm
Bristol A United States

Hypnosis play is all in the mind. By altering your partner’s memory, their perceptions, and their sense of time you can bring an extra measure of mind-bending fun to your scenes. Find out how to get your partner to forget simple facts like their name or age, go blank while the environment around them changes, … Continue reading "Hypnotic Headgames"

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The Erotic Signal Whip

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:15 pm
Bristol B United States

This workshop is for those interested in using their signal whip for lighter erotic play. Students should have mastery of basic throws, and should come prepared with a signal whip, as this will be a hands-on technique class. Partners are welcome but not required.

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Mind/Body/Spirit/Rope

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:15 pm
Naragansett United States

In this partner oriented workshop, we’ll introduce some exercises and practices from yoga that can improve our connection and fun while tying. We’ll be discussing connection, flow, mindfulness and breathing. Tops are expected to be able to tie a single column tie without looking while tying. Please bring at least 2 lengths of 6mm (¼”) … Continue reading "Mind/Body/Spirit/Rope"

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Fur, Feather, Fangs, Fetish: Primal Animal Play as Shamanic Totem Working

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:15 pm
Ocean United States

Having an “animal side” can sometimes lead you to looking at the actual life of that animal in the wild, and that’s one step away from working with the spirit of that animal species. The line between “sex fetish” and “shamanic fetish” can get pretty thin on this ground! Let’s talk about what happens when … Continue reading "Fur, Feather, Fangs, Fetish: Primal Animal Play as Shamanic Totem Working"

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Cosplay as Roleplay

February 16 @ 11:45 am - 1:15 pm
Rhode Island United States

Chances are if you've done any kind of BDSM, you've played a bit with roles, maybe just "Master" and "slave." In this class we'll talk about going to the next level, using techniques of improvisational acting to add drama to scenes and make them run smoothly, and using cosplay (costuming known characters) as a basis … Continue reading "Cosplay as Roleplay"

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12:00 pm

Hypnosis Lounge

February 16 @ 12:00 pm - 4:00 pm

This is a place where those who love hypnosis can come and meet fellow hypnotists and hypnotees. People curious about hypnosis can come and learn what hypnosis is, and get a taste of trance with experienced hypno tops and bottoms.

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Disability Meet & Greet

February 16 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm
Kingston United States

Come meet up with folks with disabilities and find common conversation and community at the Fetish Fair Fleamarket.

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2:00 pm

A Hand Up: Fisting for Every Body

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
Rotunda United States

Ahh, the mystique of fisting. From sweetly erotic to scarily humiliating, and everything in between, fisting is one of the most intimate SM or sexual acts (at least, in the opinion of the presenter!) Regardless of which hole you’re interested in, you’ll learn the ins and outs of fisting, and explore some of the ways … Continue reading "A Hand Up: Fisting for Every Body"

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Surviving Your Relationship with an Evil Overlord: Things they left out at Minion School

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
Tiverton United States

Oh, sure, join up with a sexy evil mastermind and you think your life is set. Wrong! It's hard to be a henchman in these troubled times! Join fellow cunning viziers, loyal lieutenants, cultist believers & scheming heirs to get the insider dirt on how to be the very best Companion to Evil. AKA, the … Continue reading "Surviving Your Relationship with an Evil Overlord: Things they left out at Minion School"

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The Dog has more Rights than me

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
Bristol A United States

Long term 24/7 relationships take on interesting twists and turns. In this conversation we will discuss what a long term relationship with total power exchange can look like. What are pitfalls and how to avoid them. And we will explore when a submissive or slave has given up so much power that even the non … Continue reading "The Dog has more Rights than me"

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BDSM and the Law

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
Bristol B United States
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LGBT Panel

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Naragansett United States
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Whoa! I think that was Spiritual

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
Ocean United States

You’re not the sort of person who generally has anything to do with so-called “spirituality,” but Something Just Happened in a scene, and you aren’t sure what to do with it. This class is a non-judgmental discussion of many ways the numinous can intrude on our BDSM or power exchange, even with those who are … Continue reading "Whoa! I think that was Spiritual"

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Phallic Fun: Toys for Penises

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
Rhode Island United States

Vibrators aren’t just for vulvas and vaginas, and there’s SO MUCH out there for penis-owners besides stroking toys. Whether you or your partner(s) are curious about this aspect of anatomy, you want to up & expand your masturbation game, or you’re just jealous of all the toys designed for vulvas, this is the workshop for … Continue reading "Phallic Fun: Toys for Penises"

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Recovery in the Lifestyle (meeting)

February 16 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Kingston United States

Join like-minded people from different 12 Step Programs sharing our collective experience, strength, and hope. Recovery in the Lifestyle is a fellowship of BDSM lifestyle people who are in recovery, our would like to be, and their guests. RitL follows the steps for recovery and respects the great importance of anonymity for many of us. … Continue reading "Recovery in the Lifestyle (meeting)"

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