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Late Night Games Lounge

February 15, 2019 @ 10:00 pm - February 16, 2019 @ 1:00 am
Ocean United States
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Late Night Rope Lounge

February 15, 2019 @ 10:00 pm - February 16, 2019 @ 1:30 am
Rhode Island United States

An open space to relax and tie. Practice your rope skills or learn something new from the volunteers and organizers. Spectators and those new to rope are expressly welcome!

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Late Night Hypnosis Lounge

February 15, 2019 @ 10:00 pm - February 16, 2019 @ 1:30 am
Naragansett United States

Hypnosis can provide some startlingly original erotic and kinky experiences, and add new dimensions to every other kink too. Whether you're already a fan or just curious, the erotic hypnosis lounge is a place to meet people, learn, and share techniques. You're welcome to drop by to just sit and watch or to interact and […]

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Friday Evening Show

February 15, 2019 @ 11:30 pm - February 16, 2019 @ 1:30 am
Rotunda United States

Experience the greatest cult movie of all time. Brad & Janet, a newly engaged couple have a car breakdown in an isolated area and must find a phone to call for help. They find themselves at the bizarre castle of Dr. Frank-N-Furter, a transvestite, and meet challenges they are unprepared for. They, and you the […]

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9:00 am

Safer Scene Negotiation

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Greenwich United States

"This workshop helps you negotiate a scene to make it as safe as possible "“ top or bottom - given your interests and personal limits. Note: sometimes the safest decision is to decline play until you can observe the individual and/or speak to someone who has played with this person! We will discuss how to […]

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Basic Violet Wands

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Kingston United States

A brief overview of the history, discussion of safety and health issues, an introduction of techniques and the comparison between older violet wand technologies and techniques and the more modern ones in use today. This class also presents an opportunity for participants to experience the sensations of the violet wand, including direct and indirect contact. […]

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Learning the Ropes: Bondage 101

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Tiverton United States

Curious about rope bondage but worried about safety? Want to know how discuss rope scenes with another person? Interested in knowing what ties can give you the most mileage as a beginner? This class is open to all skill levels interested in learning rope basics, dusting off skills, or practicing new ways to do old […]

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Recovery in the Lifestyle Meeting

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 10:00 am
Belcourt United States

12-step for Kinky People- Meeting

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NELA Board Meet & Greet

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Rotunda United States

Introduce yourself to and meet the NELA Board of Directors (and NELA Ombudsperson) and speak your mind to the people leading the organization. Learn about opportunities to volunteer, be involved, and/or enact change for the New England Kink Community. This 90 minute session, set up "office-hour" style, will feature 3 officers for each 45-minute section; […]

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Allow me to get you a cup of water: Giving Service

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Ocean United States

Being of service or in service to someone is a beautiful expression of a gift. In this class we will explore the act of giving service to another. In some ways, it's about the act of doing the service given. In other ways, it's about the presence and intention we hold within ourselves as we […]

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[Master Class] The Sadist Butcher: Anatomically-Based Fear Play

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 11:00 am
Bristol B United States

Want to pretend that your bottom is livestock, or a hunted deer, and it's time to get the knives? Or maybe you just like the idea of playing Hannibal Lechter? This can be an intense edgeplay scene if it's done right, even though no one actually gets cut up for real. But you have to […]

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[Master Class] Fingering, Fucking, and Fisting: Anal Play for everyone

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 11:00 am
Bristol A United States

Never got a finger up your bum, but curious about it? Love to take big toys and want to go a little further? Want to create exquisite sensations for your partner during a big scene? Never fear! Sarah's taught dozens of anal play classes, from basic to extreme, and she'll roll them all into one […]

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NELA Welcome Wagon

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 12:00 pm
Patriots United States

Welcome Wagon, a NELA SIG, offers interactive classes that highlight important issues relevant to people new to kink, BDSM, the New England kink scene, and of course the FLEA. The facilitators will cover issues of consent, sexual and emotional safety, basic definitions of kink and BDSM terms and concepts, how to navigate the kink community […]

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Kinky Art Gallery

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 4:00 pm
Room 607 United States
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The Bullwhip Lounge

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - 6:00 pm
Naragansett United States

Did you know that the crack of a whip is the sound of the popper exceeding the speed of sound? Did you know that a whip's physics are based on the principle of the conservation of energy along a continuously decreasing taper? Single tails hold a special place in the hearts and minds of many […]

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Serenity Space

February 16, 2019 @ 9:00 am - February 17, 2019 @ 12:00 am
Room 127 United States

Conventions can be fast paced and stressful at times, the Serenity Space as an option for taking some time away from the bustle of the main Flea space. The Serenity Space is equipped with several different stations for practicing self-care techniques. The Serenity Space is meant to be a relaxing and welcoming space. If you […]

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10:30 am

Bootblacking

February 16, 2019 @ 10:30 am - 3:00 pm
Vending United States

The Bootblack Stand is back this year for all of your boot and leather needs. Come by, take a load off, watch the beautiful fetish wear go by, and let our team of skilled bootblacks care for your boots, jackets, pants, vests, chaps, and toys. 50% of your donation will go to a charity - […]

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10:45 am

Teasecraft Meet & Greet and Show & Tell

February 16, 2019 @ 10:45 am - 11:45 am
Belcourt United States

Do you like making your own sex toys / BDSM equipment / costumes / other kinky and fun things? Come share your ideas, projects, and projects-in-progress with other crafters. Not working on a project right now? No problem! Come join us, ask questions, and get inspired. teasecraft is a meetup group for sex/kink-positive makers and […]

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Considerations for Trans/Cis Erotic Play

February 16, 2019 @ 10:45 am - 12:15 pm
Kingston United States

It's awesome when two or more people are interested in play, sex, or dating. When one or more of those people are trans*, and one or more of them are cis, there are particular communication strategies, pressures, joys, and other considerations, that can be valuable to acknowledge and work with. Whether you're looking for a […]

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Negotiation Skills 201

February 16, 2019 @ 10:45 am - 12:15 pm
Barrington

Critical to the BDSM lifestyle is our ability to negotiate scenes and elements in our relationships. Expressing our desires and limits, their degrees and possible consequences is important to building a foundation of trust and understanding between parties. This workshop is a practical skills development class designed to improve your ability to negotiate a scene. […]

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Fancy Rope for Novices

February 16, 2019 @ 10:45 am - 12:15 pm
Rotunda United States

Join Echolynx for a demonstration and hands-on practice in some simple ties for various body parts. Participants should bring a few lengths of rope, a cutting tool, and an open mind to do some fancy ties with a basic knowledge of rope.

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I can get my own cup of coffee: Accepting service

February 16, 2019 @ 10:45 am - 12:15 pm
Tiverton United States

Some times we just want to do things for ourselves. As Masters, Mistresses, Dominants, we need to remember we are in a style of relationship where authority and power are not equal. In this class we will discuss authority based relationships and how the left side of the slash (Master/Mistress/Dominant) works to accept service from […]

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You May Call Me Villain McVillainface: Using the Evil Overlord Career Guide for Your Kinky Relationships

February 16, 2019 @ 10:45 am - 12:15 pm
Greenwich United States

Look, there's a reason why you like to wear black leather with spikes and studs, or intimidating uniforms with gleaming jackboots. You're a goddamn villain, the Ultimate Evil, the Big Bad, the Wicked Fiend or Conniving Vizier, etc. But that doesn't mean you can't have a working empire of evil, allowing for enterprising partners and […]

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11:00 am

Rope Lounge

February 16, 2019 @ 11:00 am - 6:00 pm
Rhode Island United States

An open space to relax and tie. Practice your rope skills or learn something new from the volunteers and organizers. Spectators and those new to rope are expressly welcome!

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11:30 am

[Master Class] Experience Ordeal

February 16, 2019 @ 11:30 am - 1:30 pm
Bristol B United States

Seek your authentic self on the unknowable path of ordeal. In this hands-on experience, you will participate in an ordeal ritual as either a witness, a seeker, or a co-facilitator. When you sign up for this class you will be prompted to fill out a confidential survey, which will collect information about your skills, your […]

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[Master Class] Rope Bondage Speed & Flow Drills

February 16, 2019 @ 11:30 am - 1:30 pm
Bristol A United States

**Increase your speed, flow, confidence & connection in your rope bondage play!** Whether you're an expert or have only taken one rope bondage class, this experience will help to make your rope play more confident, smoother and intuitive. This class concentrates on an method of essential structured drill set to build your fluid, effective and […]

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12:30 pm

The Society Meet & Greet

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 1:30 pm
Belcourt United States

Come and learn all about the Society of CT, one of the only member owned co-op spaces in the area. Meet and interact with the governance panel members as well as current members. See what the Society has to offer the community as well as how to become a member.

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BDSM & Disability

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
Kingston United States

It's hard enough to be disabled, but it seems like all the erotic imagery about BDSM and kinky sex stars perfect-bodied people who can get into any position and swing from the chandeliers. How do those of us who have daily difficulties with our ordinary functioning manage BDSM? How can we find workarounds, compensations, and […]

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People of Color Discussion

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
Rotunda United States

A chance for people of color to meet each other and discuss concerns specific to being a person of color in kink and alternative lifestyle communities.

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Why Does That Work?

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
Barrington

Why do people go into trance when they stare at a swinging pocket watch, or a shiny crystal?  Why does just telling someone to relax, over and over, often lead to trance?  And how the heck do those flashy instant inductions work at all?  Wiseguy demonstrates some classic inductions while explaining not only why and […]

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Let’s talk about sex: Frank Discussions around the Realitites of our desires

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
Greenwich United States

So here's the truth: no one has the same type of sexual interactions or erotic expression as anyone else. Some people want to be penetrated, others eschew the idea. Some of us want to be touched certain ways, others don't. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you enjoy anal play; just because you're a lesbian […]

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Taking it from the Bottom: Tools, Tips, and Skills for Better Bottoming

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
Tiverton United States

This class will be useful for all bottoms and switches-who-bottom, whether you are new to the scene or have been around a while. Being a bottom can be challenging. We will talk about ways of improving your chances of getting play, how to have better play, finding partners, and how to look after ourselves as […]

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Pet Play Park

February 16, 2019 @ 12:30 pm - 4:30 pm
Ocean United States

Ever wish you could play with the pets in the park as one of them yourself? Well come over to the Pet Play Park and join us for a romp! We're going to have toys to play with, mats to protect knees, and lots of super cute fun! Pets may also bring their Owners/Handlers with […]

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2:00 pm

[Master Class] Pain Cycling 2.5: Hands On Calibration!

February 16, 2019 @ 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Bristol A United States

This is a class for those who are already comfortable with "pain cycling," building on the idea of "calibration" taught by Sara in one of their other classes-while calibration using one form of impact play can produce a great scene, calibration involving multiple forms of impact play to create "cycles within a cycle" can bring […]

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[Master Class] Mean Things to do to Cocks Balls and More

February 16, 2019 @ 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Bristol B United States

We will be covering fabulously painful and strange things to do to men's genitals safely and erotically. Let's talk about needle play with the penis and scrotum, urethral sounding, chemical play, what happens when a cock meets a violet wand, and more! For each "tool" we'll cover safety and counter-indications followed by three different ways […]

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2:15 pm

Disability Meet & Greet

February 16, 2019 @ 2:15 pm - 3:15 pm
Belcourt United States

Come meet up with folks with disabilities and find common conversation and community at the Fetish Fair Fleamarket.

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Redefining Virginity for a Sex-Positive World

February 16, 2019 @ 2:15 pm - 3:45 pm
Kingston United States

What does it mean to be a virgin? How did virginity become so important to contemporary western spirituality and society in the first place? In this workshop we'll trace modern virginity back to its ancient Greek roots, and discover how old beliefs continue to impact modern realities. By untangling ancient baggage, we'll empower ourselves with […]

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Poise and Grace: Aesthetic Movement in Service

February 16, 2019 @ 2:15 pm - 3:45 pm
Tiverton United States

Feeling comfortable in your skin and competent in your actions are crucial steps in making others comfortable and relaxed in your presence. If you identify as an "s" type the comfort and relaxation of your "D" or "M" type is usually something we strive to provide. This class is a practical, hands on class, for […]

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Pedular Enthusiasm: The Universal and Sensual Foot Experience

February 16, 2019 @ 2:15 pm - 3:45 pm
Barrington

This class will cover the numerous ways of engaging and appreciating feet and their sexual, sensual, social, psychological and spiritual dimensions. Subjects of fetishism/partialism, massage/reflexology, adornment, footwear, foot worship, dominance, communication and foot play will be addressed. The presenters seek to share an important (and sexy) pedular appreciation to build understanding and skills around one […]

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Sissy Transformations: Exploring the Divine Feminine

February 16, 2019 @ 2:15 pm - 3:45 pm
Rotunda United States

This is a class for individuals who wish to explore their feminine side through cross dressing, make-up and hair transformation, behavior modification, forced feminization, maid play, service submission. This is also a class for Dommes/Tops who want to explore this arena with their bottoms, subs, slaves. In this class we will explore the following: Liberate […]

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This Space Left Intentionally Blank: Hypnotically creating blank states of mind

February 16, 2019 @ 2:15 pm - 3:45 pm
Greenwich United States

Blank is good, blank is obedient, blank is pleasure. In hypnokink, one of the states many people enjoy playing with is various kinds of blank states of mind. Come explore some of the different ways that we can hypnotically create the experience of blankness and some of the fun and hot ways we can use […]

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4:00 pm

Bootblacking

February 16, 2019 @ 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Vending United States

The Bootblack Stand is back this year for all of your boot and leather needs. Come by, take a load off, watch the beautiful fetish wear go by, and let our team of skilled bootblacks care for your boots, jackets, pants, vests, chaps, and toys. 50% of your donation will go to a charity - […]

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4:30 pm

The Art of Teaching

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm
Greenwich United States

This community is all about sharing knowledge. In this class, Wiseguy shares techniques and skills that can help you be more effective as a teacher or presenter, whether you teach hypnosis at an event or just need to give presentations at your day job. Learn how to organize your material to be easier to absorb, […]

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Makeup Enthusiasts Meet & Greet

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 5:30 pm
Belcourt United States

Calling all make-up enthusiasts. Please bring your own make-up and tools, and come share your best primping secrets. Need help with "looks" for the evening, assistance affixing your false lashes, or an extra hand for applying a temporary tattoo? Come by! All are welcome to attend, but please bring your own tools, applicators, and colors. […]

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Ponyplay Beyond the Basics

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm
Rotunda United States

"Walk, trot, canter... walk, trot, canter... walk, trot, canter... good pony! Have a carrot!" Have you ever wondered if there is another way to play pony? Well, there is! We will be exploring alternatives to the usual forms of play; mixing training techniques with dungeon play, erotic play and various forms of bondage. We'll look […]

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Body Impact: The Basic, The Complex, and The Cheats

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm
Tiverton United States

Although BDSM toys can be really fun to use during impact scenes, there's nothing quite as effective at causing pain as your built-in tools, i.e. parts of your body! During this class, Sara Scalper will show you a variety of techniques that will have your bottom squirming in pain even though you are using only […]

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Love In the Time of Labels

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm
Barrington

We human beings love to have labels and boxes to put things in - including our relationships. The culturally defined relationship structures, however, don't really work when it comes to dreaming of our own relationships and following our own hearts and heads. Rather than delve into the labels and definitions, this class will walk through […]

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Shades of the Rainbow: Queer Panel

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm
Kingston United States

Gender and sexuality are both so fluid, and so much more complex than gay or straight and even than man or woman. Participants of varying identities, orientations, and preferences will share their feelings regarding their sexuality and gender as well as their experiences, growths, and struggles. Come ready with your questions for the panel.

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Mapping Your D/s Archetype

February 16, 2019 @ 4:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Bristol United States

Do you crave D/s relationships? Do you want to improve your current M/s relationship and understand your partner better? How do we create successful and fulfilling D/s and M/s relationships? How do we find the best match and avoid disaster and broken hearts? What goes into creating effective protocols? To answer these questions, first we […]

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6:00 pm

Hypnosis Lounge

February 16, 2019 @ 6:00 pm - 11:30 pm
Ocean United States

Hypnosis can provide some startlingly original erotic and kinky experiences, and add new dimensions to every other kink too. Whether you're already a fan or just curious, the erotic hypnosis lounge is a place to meet people, learn, and share techniques. You're welcome to drop by to just sit and watch or to interact and […]

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6:15 pm

High Protocol Dinner [Ticketed Event]

February 16, 2019 @ 6:15 pm - 9:30 pm
Patriots United States

Come and break bread with us, and join us in this expression of power and authority relationships. One of the most fantasized aspects of M/s relationships is a formal, white glove dinner service. This evening event will allow an opportunity to serve and to be served at the dinner table in the style of a […]

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6:45 pm

You Wanna Put That WHERE?!? Sex Toys for Play and Pleasure

February 16, 2019 @ 6:45 pm - 8:15 pm
Barrington

It's all sex toys, all the time, presented with hilarity by Kim Airs, longtime scenester and founder of New England's first sexuality boutique, Grand Opening!, now living on the web at GrandOpening.com Learn what the latest gizmos are, how they work and what to do with them in and out of scene. Always unpredictable and […]

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People of Color Meet & Greet

February 16, 2019 @ 6:45 pm - 7:45 pm
Room 607 United States

Come and hang out with other people of color and allies. Discuss issues we face, chat about new events, current events, culture, or whatever comes up.

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Working Out the Kinks: Flexibility for the Mobility Impaired

February 16, 2019 @ 6:45 pm - 8:15 pm
Tiverton United States

Learn an effective and restorative workout for the body with a focus on mindful movement. Moving from the deepest muscles of the body outward will help you restore range of movement, improve alignment and joint stability while improving strength and neuromuscular connections. This workout is suitable for participants of a variety of fitness and mobility […]

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Poly 101

February 16, 2019 @ 6:45 pm - 8:15 pm
Greenwich United States

Polyamory 101 is for the polyamory-curious, the newly polyamourous and anyone who is thinking about opening their relationship to consensual non-monogamy. Topics will include the myriad of non-monogamous relationship structures, the ethics of polyamory, negotiation and consent, time management, and how to be polyamorous in an ostensibly monogamous world.

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Leather History

February 16, 2019 @ 6:45 pm - 8:15 pm
Bristol United States

From the end of World War II to present day, come join presenter Scott Erickson and learn about the origins of the gay men's leather community, and how the traditions of our community developed, changed, and even survived and are still part of us today.

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Get Switchy With It: Navigating play dynamics as a switch

February 16, 2019 @ 6:45 pm - 8:15 pm
Kingston United States

Two switches walk into a dungeon, neither knows who's in charge so they wind up awkwardly staring at each other, before leaving, going home, and masturbating out of frustration while quietly weeping. Don't let this happen to you! Learn how to navigate through an experience when there aren't rigid power dynamics involved! Dynamics in kink […]

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8:00 pm

Cocktails, Boots, & Chocolate (CBC) [Paid Evening Event]

February 16, 2019 @ 8:00 pm - February 17, 2019 @ 12:00 am
Rhode Island United States

Come spend your evening indulging yourself in all earthy smokey pleasures. CBC will have a variety of chocolates to savor, a bar for pairing some delicious cocktail choices with your chocolate and including some house suggestions. Socialize and kick back with friends in finest leather attire. While relaxing some boot and leather care will be […]

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Saturday Evening Show [Ticketed Evening Event]

February 16, 2019 @ 8:00 pm - 11:30 pm
Rotunda United States

Join The Boston Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for a FABULOUS night's performance of gender bending hilarity, and sparkling fun. These drag queens, whose sistery (history) was founded in 1979 in San Francisco as a way to support those affected by the AIDS Crisis; now, the Sisters stand for non-judgmentalism, entertainment, and joy. The Sisters provide […]

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8:30 pm

Erotica Readings

February 16, 2019 @ 8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Bristol United States

Come hear authors Cecilia Tan, Laura Antoniou, Midori, DL King, and a slate of other smut-meisters read you their sexiest words.

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Screw-It-Yourself: Fun with Silicone

February 16, 2019 @ 8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Barrington

Have you ever daydreamed of making your own custom silicone sex toy? Maybe you have an idea for a brand-new toy design, or perhaps you've found that a certain toy in your box would be *perfect* if only it were shaped just a little bit differently. We'll talk through how to get started making your […]

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Mermaid Bondage

February 16, 2019 @ 8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Greenwich United States

"Under the sea, under the sea, Darlin' it's better down where it's wetter, Take it from me. "Have you ever wanted to be a mermaid? Would you love to tie someone up to look like a merperson? During this class, we will be learning a basic hishi leg tie. This tie is easy and perfect […]

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Going Primal: RRAWWR!!

February 16, 2019 @ 8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Kingston United States

Get your blood pumping and your heart racing as we explore the intensity of Primal as both play and state of being. Understand why it Primal play produces such intensity, how it impacts us physically and emotionally, and techniques to make your engagement more dynamic and enjoyable. We'll talk about engaging the primitive mind, elements […]

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Late Night Games Lounge

February 16, 2019 @ 8:30 pm - February 17, 2019 @ 1:00 am
Naragansett United States
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Creative Restraint and Sensual Torment

February 16, 2019 @ 8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Tiverton United States

You don't own a Cross, can't tie an Ebi, and don't throw a Single Tail. Out of luck? No! We will celebrate kinky fun with everyday surroundings, a few basic items, and decadent creativity. "Creative Restraint" explores the versatility of Cuffs, Clips, belts, rope, bungee cords, shrink wrap, etc. along with decadent applications of everyday […]

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10:15 pm

Recovery in the Lifestyle Meeting

February 16, 2019 @ 10:15 pm - 11:15 pm
Kingston United States

Join like-minded people from different 12 Step Programs sharing our collective experience, strength and hope. Recovery in the Lifestyle is a fellowship of BDSM lifestyle people who are in recovery, or would like to be, and their guests. RitL follows the steps of recovery and respects the great importance of anonymity for many of us. […]

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